The Most Common Types of Bullying:
- Physical: Hitting, tripping, and/or kicking
- Verbal: Name-calling and teasing
- Relational/Social: Spreading rumors and leaving out of groups
- Damage of Property: Damage or destruction of personal belongings
- Cyberbullying: Bullying occurred through technology
(Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2023)
Signs Your Child May Be Getting Bullied
- Unexplained injuries
- Lost or damaged belongings
- Faking illness to avoid school
- Changes in eating habits or appearance
- Difficulty sleeping or nightmares
- Declining grades or disinterest in school
- Avoiding friends and social situations
- Decreased self-esteem
- Self-harm or suicidal thoughts
Signs Your Child May be Bullying Others
- Engaging in physical or verbal fights
- Friends with bullies
- Increased aggression
- Frequent trouble at school
- Bringing home others' belongings
- Concerned about others' opinions
- Avoiding accountability
(From U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2021)
Be Proactive: Strategies to Prevent Bullying Before it Becomes a Problem
- Teach your child assertive language.
- Help them identify "safe friends" to talk to about bullying.
- Identify "safe adults" they can report bullying to.
- Encourage involvement in activities they enjoy.
- Monitor peer incidents for bullying patterns.
- Educate your child on bullying and encourage them to speak up.
- Partner with teachers and school staff for open communication
(Howard, 2023)
References:
CENTERS FOR DISEASE CONTROL AND PREVENTION. (2023, SEPTEMBER 28). FAST FACTS: PREVENTING BULLYING. CENTERS FOR DISEASE CONTROL AND PREVENTION. HTTPS://WWW.CDC.GOV/VIOLENCEPREVENTION/YOUTHVIOLENCE/BULLYINGRESEARCH/FASTFACT.HTML
HOWARD, J. (2023, NOVEMBER 6). HOW TO KNOW IF YOUR CHILD IS BEING BULLIED. CHILD MIND INSTITUTE. HTTPS://CHILDMIND.ORG/ARTICLE/HOW-TO-KNOW-IF-YOUR-CHILD-IS-BEING-BULLIED/